I just came across the question "Size of a byte in memory - Java" at stackoverflow.
Ok, stackoverflow might not be the place for high quality answers, but almost nobody getting close to a meaningful answer for this day to day question, is a little bit shocking.

I documented the rules for java memory usage of the SUN JVM at my old blog 2 years ago.

I don't ask for people knowing the rules exactly (I don't either), but some feeling about where a JVM would align objects, and what kind of overhead an object has is essential Java programmers knowledge.
It's not really necessary that you know all the rules because the Eclipse Memory Analyzer knows about them.

Still, I think I understand that people might not know the details, because they are platform (32 bit versus 64 bit) as well as JVM implementation depended and have not been documented for a long time.

Not everybody has access to JVM hackers ;)